Personally i feel that i'm consider quite tolerant already. I can tolerate him to play games every single night (for wkdays) whole day for sunday and not doing anything. I can tolerate him for being lazy. I can tolerate him for drinking. I can tolerate his lame excuses. I can tolerate him to msn/sms to other zhabos. I can tolerate him for his empty promises.
But somehow or rather i can't tolerate him looking at other girls.
Ok..lets be fair..i'm not referring to looking at chiobus or some sexy/funny dressing zhabos.. I'm refering to he will look at girls or women as long as the person is a FEMALE with 1pair of eyes,1 nose,1 mouth and walking pass him or standing at the roadside to wait for traffic or even walking to the lift..
he is looking...
his eyes is always looking...
and the skills is so bad that will always spotted by me...
No matter is pretty,ugly,skinny,fatty,tall,short,long hair,short hair..no regardless of what races, what ages..
WTH..i mean..what's that good to look at?
And please..not that they are pretty or wad..even aunty also see... stop looking for a sec can? funny lor..these pple... *no words to describe*
And what's more... even honeymoon..he can also look at girls..not that i don't let him look totally.. Japanese girls who don't like to see? but please bear in mind "its our once a lifetime honeymoon!!!" If your spouse like that can you accept??
I believe is a NO.
I admit i do look at guys but fyi i only look at yandaos and angmohs. Not that i will STARE at EVERY SINGLE GUYS THAT WALK PASSED ME for God sake!
Every human likes to admire at beautiful things!
But please people dun come and tell me "ok mah..he is just looking but his heart is with you what.." Cos i've been telling myself these whenever he looks at girls but believe me you won't be calm if your spouse did that.
Worst, he can even raise his voice at you when you say/nag at him and say what:
"humans born with eyes is for seeing things what" "what's wrong with looking at girls!?" "Don't tell me you don't look at guys?"..etc *kaos*
