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~Tolerance~

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Today's Topic ~ Tolerance
I believe each and every person will have their own tolerance level.
As for mine, i can say my tolerance lvl is quite high..as in i won't get angry easily or show my temper.
Volcano - is a very appropriate word to describe me.
Before Volcano eruption, it will store lava until a limit and it will explode out.
Lava = Mistakes or incidents or attitude or Bullshitting
Why i say so..is becos i'm that type that i'll be nice to everybody but if you keep stepping on my tail..1st time..2nd times..3rd times..even 4th or 5th times..until i can't tolerate i'll explode and once explode..it will be terrible. *Warning: Don't try me~! haha!*

And please don't think you are "elderly" or "higher rank" than me means what you said are all correct and doesn't mean you can twist your words infront of me. Cos i won't give face or what.
Don't think that i'm nice means i'm good to bully or "sick cat" cos you are damn wrong! I'm nice bcos i'm nice so pls don't test my limitation cos you won't want to see volcano exploding.

Lastly, *Sneeze* I'm allergic to Bullshitting and shit people. hahaha~

Note: If you dislike one person, either you ignore that person completely or if you got no choice and have to face this person everyday..then i suggest..don't keep reminding yourself how bad this person is but to treat him/her as per normal..then you will live your days more happier~ *Hating someone is not a big deal and in fact make yourself unhappy..forgiveness is the key to happiness and will definately get prettier! haha..

Labels: *Ah Chew* Allergic to Shit pple

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~My Grandfather's Story~

Sunday, August 26, 2007

That day..zhen and my other colleagues were chit chatting..and we talk abt zhen's baby and suddenly talk abt my grandfather...and tat makes me realie sad...cos i really miss him alot alot....

Abt 6years back, my healthy ah gong fell sick..and passed away in old folk's home located at Katong..with no one accompany and see him for the last time...
I rem so clearly..at ard 9pm+ that night..the phone rings and there's an unfamiliar lady's voice telling us that ah gong had passed away..(all were shocked by the news) and headed straight down to the home. That was the FIRST TIME someone so close to me had leave me FOREVER!! i was so lost..didn't know how to react at the point of time..but once i reached there..i broke down...there's no word to describe how i feel at that moment.
Bonely. Pale. were the words to describe the last look on my ah gong. there's barely fresh and his face was no longer the same as he was alive. i was not afraid but sad and angry.
Angry is bcos i feel that if my parents and my aunt had nv send my ah gong to home..i believe his conditions will not get worsen and he will definately be happier.. did i mention i volunteer to take care of him? Yes. I did. but they disagreed. What else can a sec 4 student do at that time? I can only feel unfair and angry. Unfair abt how his own daughters can be so mean and heartless..before he fell sick..everyday he went to my parents' shop and slog from morning til night..but what he get frm them? Nothing but harshness. Nobody would be happy to be sent to Home. i blame myself for not able to convince or stop them.
At the wake, i think i'm the only one that cried from the very first day til the very last day of his wake and even now and then..whenever i think of him or dreamt of him..i cried.
He's one of my loved ones who dote me since i was born. He's always so kind and happy although he always quarrel with my ah ma but i can say he's a very good ah gong!

Char's advise: Treasure your loved ones when they are around and don't live life with regrets.
And Most importantly, if you don't want your kids to do the same to you, you must jolly well set a good example. DO NOT SEND YOUR FOLKS TO HOME. *Warning*

Labels: ~Mother's father = Ah Gong~

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My 4 dian Jin~

Finally~ My 4 Dian Jin~

4 Dian Jin = Wedding accessories from Husband's family

= TeoChew Culture

Supposingly,It should consists of Necklace, Earrings, Bracelet and Ring.

But now, they are not so particular that you must get 4pcs of Jewellery..haha..Just like me.

As i don't think ring is that impt cos i already got 2rings (1 proposed ring and another is wedding ring) from my hubby..how many fingers do i have!? haha...its more than enough. =)

Actualie apart from the pic above i still got 1 more very chio bracelet but had brought to alteration..so will upload again whn i collect back after 10days! hehe..so pls be patient~ haha

MAke a guess~ how much in total!? Actualie i dun expect my future mother-in-law to be so generous to buy me so ex stuffs..i was thinking maybe maximum 5K or lesser..but she bought me 1 set (3pcs) at 7K+! OMG. its so So SO ex!! However, i feel so happy..at least they think i'm "important" and worth the money..and most importantly she asked me to choose whatever i like and not "you choose something not so ex huh..not more than how much huh..blah" wadsoever..haha actualie as long as got the heart can liao..i more forcus on how's the attitude of this person than how ex is the stuff this person give..*you xin jiu hao* so conclusion is..HAPPY~! haha~

Labels: Wedding Accessories~4 Dian Jin~

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游鸿明-当刺猬爱上玫瑰

Monday, August 20, 2007

游鸿明-当刺猬爱上玫瑰

词:李焯雄曲:游鸿明编曲:洪敬尧和声:谢文德游鸿明

你越努力靠近越刺痛自己

爱意里的敌意一身的讽刺

得不到的最美不开不枯萎

炙热的成灰对不对

不能依偎就像刺猬爱上玫瑰

曾以为直来直往才不虚伪

我们是同类却不算一对

始终学不会用粗糙的方法给彼此安慰

不能依偎就像刺猬爱上玫瑰

当防卫是自我的基本配备

心里还有谁算不算一对

脆弱是种罪所有伤悲都像是借题发挥

我何尝不爱你却伤了自己

生命是否锯齿痛才是真实

失去的最珍贵口是却心非

白昼后天黑对不对

就像倔强的刺猬爱上了多心的玫瑰

当寂寞爱也无法碰触包围

心里愈有愧愈说无所谓

心里愈疲惫感觉愈钝反应却愈发尖锐

Labels: ~SuPer Nice Song delicated tO all SoUls~

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***HaPPy SUndaY***

Saturday, August 18, 2007

楊程鈞校園歌喉戰月冠軍--

當刺蝟愛上玫瑰

Since this is my FIRST post, i had uploaded this video clip from YouTUbe!
This guy - Yang Cheng Jun is SO power..the skills he had and he's cute..haha.. =x
And all thanks to him if not i wun be able to know there's such a nice song sang by You Hong Ming (Original Singer).
Enjoy~! =D

Labels: ~Appetizer for My liCiOuS BlogGie~

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